Sunday, April 5, 2009

Turning corner of your life.

Today one said that "you are at the turning corner of your life, what you decide now will determine your future"

Many words were used today. Many insparational words I might say. It always depends as to whether you take it in to guide you or you leave it out. It has always been your choice.

As for me, I do have a plan, atleast I have a plan for the next 5 years. I like planning. This is how I go on with my daily life. At the end of the day you know how much you have done. At the same it is good to know that unplanned things happen, so you need to improvise and learn how to adapt. Then again this is how i deal with my life. How you do it with yours is totally up to you.

With many datelines and submission the last week, I felt the need to have a break. The coming week wouldnt be as hectic as those before but I'll to keep the pace going. This time around last semester I was deep down and under. I guess you go down once and you try not to go down again. Atleast you try.

Today her talk was very moving. A motivator is a person who has been through a lot and knows how to share it with others. You do not pull people down with you but you take them a level higher. How you do it is up to you. She said that you need to keep your brain thinking, if not you'll end up being the stupid person behind it. We there is a truth in that. There is a truth in everything she said, but different people accept that differently. I for myself could not be bothered by simple usage of terms that thinks lowly of people. You take criticism and you learn from it. You do not cry over it. That should never happen. I guess I share this view with some of my friends. Others might differ.

A friend of mine had his "sentap" moment today. I guess he has the rights to do so. The last thing that you could be noted of is the person who did the wrong thing. How about all other things that you did? Did the person that made the comment thought of it in the first place? I guess not. Yet again words can be so destructive. So if you feel you said bad things before, make the effort to take it back. Start by saying sorry.

A friend of mine rolled her eyes a few days back. All I could say is sorry for not being the person I should be as a friend. I have no defence in what I did.

Another week left for classes. Will surely miss it.

Fad

2 comments:

  1. she who rolled her eyesApril 5, 2009 at 10:59 PM

    you need not say you're sorry because there's nothing to be forgiven :) i was just joking around la adoi fad dont make me feel guilty pulaaa! sure i was upset and needed someone to comfort me (ahahahahaa!) tapi i tak kesah je sbb i tahu that you weren't trying to make me feel worse ke apa ke :)

    dah, dah. jgn terasa2 hati dengan i okey! hug silverbird for me! *hugs!* :D

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  2. fadhli.

    one to achieve a lot of things in a lot of ways.

    you'll do great all the way, definitely.

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